Relaxed companion-style time
Relaxed conversation, affectionate company and a comfortable pace may be discussed as part of the arrangement.
Services and boundaries
Discuss first. Agree clearly. Respect every boundary.
This page explains the general experience that may be discussed, the differences between outcall and car-call settings, and the limits that are not negotiable.
Activities by discussion
Massage, oral and other reasonable adult activities may be discussed privately before meeting. A request is not a promise or entitlement.
Kinks and accessories
Kinks and adult accessories must be requested in advance so compatibility, cleaning, safer-use practices and limits can be discussed.
Service settings
The same consent standards apply everywhere
The location changes the logistics, not the consent standard. Both settings require clear communication, ongoing agreement and a safe way to leave.
Outcall setting
Outcall location requirements
- Clean residence, hotel or approved private location
- No unexpected guests or hidden recording
- Clear arrival and departure access
- Safe pickup and return transportation
Car-call setting
Car-call vehicle requirements
- Vehicle remains stationary
- Legal and mutually approved parking
- No unexpected driver or passenger
- Weather and climate control are safe
Firm limits
Not offered or accepted
These limits are firm and do not change because of extra payment, pressure or last-minute requests.
No anal
No rimming
No scat
No urine play
No fisting
No swallowing
No deep throat
No poor hygiene
No significant pain
No coercion or pressure
No unauthorized recording
Nothing illegal
Consent standards
Consent must remain clear throughout
Specific
Agreement to one activity does not mean agreement to another. New requests require a new, clear answer.
Ongoing
Either person may pause or stop at any time. No explanation is required to withdraw consent.
Sober enough
No one should be impaired beyond the ability to understand, communicate and freely choose.
Toy collection
Accessories require advance agreement
The collection includes floggers, a padded impact paddle, a ball gag, a collar and leash, chain-linked restraints and a coiled braided whip.
View the collection and safety notes
How to discuss a request
Discuss compatibility before meeting
Use plain language and give enough context to understand the request. Vague hints, pressure or surprise changes make a request less likely to be accepted.
- 1
Name the request
Explain the general activity or experience you want to discuss without assuming that it is available.
- 2
Describe limits
Share relevant intensity, role, body-area or equipment expectations so compatibility can be assessed honestly.
- 3
Agree on signals
For any activity involving intensity or restraint, discuss stop words, hand signals and how either person can pause immediately.
- 4
Confirm again
Prior discussion does not remove the need for clear consent after arrival. Either person may change their mind.
Equipment and safer-use practices
Accessories require more than a last-minute request
Availability, cleaning, comfort, intensity and stop procedures should be understood before an accessory is considered.
Inspection
Items must be safe to use
Damaged, dirty, improvised or unfamiliar equipment may be refused. Personal items should be disclosed before the meeting.
Cleaning
Use appropriate hygiene
Cleaning requirements depend on the item and how it is used. No shared item is assumed to be suitable for every activity.
Intensity
Start lower than the maximum
Intensity should build only with clear feedback. Significant pain, unsafe restriction or loss of communication is outside the stated limits.
Aftercare
Discuss the ending too
Some activities may require a calm transition, water, conversation or a short check-in. Expectations should fit the booked time.
Important expectations
A service description is never automatic consent
The website describes topics that may be discussed. It does not guarantee any activity, outcome or specific sequence.
Ask before changing plans
No pressure for exceptions
No hidden recording
No surprise participants
No unsafe equipment
No intoxication that affects consent
No insulting or discriminatory conduct
No assumption based on extra payment
Before and after
Plan the full appointment, not only the start time
Before
Set expectations
- Discuss compatibility and firm limits
- Prepare a clean and private location
- Confirm transportation and timing
- Disclose important changes before arrival
After
End respectfully
- Respect the agreed end time
- Provide safe return transportation
- Do not pressure for future contact
- Keep private details and content private
Questions about compatibility?